Adoption Preparation Education

An important part of Adoption Preparation is the education, training, and counseling that prepares you to parent an adopted child. Our Adoption Preparation Education program has been designed in accordance with Hague guidelines, releveant research, and client feedback. Our staff will assist prospective parents in creating a personalized plan for education based on the needs of the family and child they plan to adopt. All plans will include three core courses: Children Without Families, Preparation & Adjustment, and Parenting & Adoption. (See course descriptions below)

There are also three core assignments as a part of our Adoption Preparation Education Program: Adoption & the Law, the 7 Insights & 7 Gifts video series, and a Cultural Exploration and written essay of the country from which you are adopting. These courses and assignments, class handouts, review of materials etc. are included as a part of all of our programs; however, additional educational opportunities and requirements may carry an additional cost.

Once your initial home study review is completed, you will be able to register for required classes, complete required assignments, and register for additional educational opportunities through Care.MLJadoptions.com. It is important to remember that you must register for any courses which you intend to attend at least one week prior to the course date. (classes are subject to cancellation if attendance is too low). Further information can be found in your Adoption Preparation Guide and/or the Client Care Database.

If you are not involved with one of our adoption programs, and would like to take individual courses via Skype teleconference or at our offices, please enroll here. If you are interested in participating in our Adoption Preparation Education program and receiving a certificate of completion, please contact Lauren for more information.

The Indiana Behavioral Health and Human Services Licensing Board has approved this organization to provide Category I Continuing Education for LSW, LCSW, LMFT, LMHC, LAC, and LCAC. However, licensees must judge the program's relevance to their professional practice.

 

Core Courses for All Adoptions

Children Without Families - Each child’s story is different. Your child’s story began before he or she met you. These early pages may impact you and your child in ways that you have not anticipated. Topics covered include, but are not limited to: general characteristics and needs of children awaiting adoption; the in-country conditions that affect children; effects on children of malnutrition, relevant environmental toxins, maternal substance abuse, and other genetic, health, emotional, and developmental risk factors; data on institutionalized children and the impact of institutionalization on children, including the effect on children of the length of time spent in an institution and of the type of care provided in the expected country

Preparation & Adjustment - Topics covered include, but are not limited to: information about the impact on a child of leaving familiar ties and surroundings, as appropriate to the expected age of the child, effects of stress in children, stress management, and initial adjustment

Parenting & Adoption - Parenting is the most difficult, most important job you will ever have, and it can be even more so when you adopt a child. Topics covered include, but are not limited to: information about the impact on a child of leaving familiar ties and surroundings, as appropriate to the expected age of the child; information on the long-term implications for a family that has become multicultural through inter-country adoption

If you are not a current MLJ Adoptions, Inc. client, but would like to take part in our Adoption Preparation Education program, please contact Lauren for more information. Former clients of MLJ are always welcome to return to these classes for a refresher at any time. 

 

Additional Educational Opportunities

Transracial Parenting - How can you prepare for your child’s burgeoning identity and help them in the process, especially when you don’t “match” with your child? This class will cover ideas and strategies and provide a list of resources for doing a good job as a transracial parent. Taught by Judy Miller. $50 per family. Required for all parents adopting from the Democratic Republic of Congo.

Parenting & Latin American/Hispanic Culture - This two-hour class is geared for parents who are adopting/have adopted Hispanic children domestically or children from Latin American countries. The class seeks to provide parents with ethno-racial awareness by examining cultural expectations and the landscape of parenting transracially. Taught by Judy Miller. 2 hours $50 per family. Strongly suggested for all parents adopting from a Nicaragua, Honduras, or Mexico.

From Infertility to Adoption - How did you arrive at the decision to adopt? In this two-hour class we examine loss and grief related to fertility and how infertility impacts parenting. You don’t want to miss this. Taught by Judy Miller. 2 hours, $50

Parents Connect - The greatest gift you can give your child is a healthy, strong relationship between you and your partner. Approximately 67% of couples report a significant drop in relationship satisfaction in the first year of becoming parents or expanding their family. We will examine the skills that the other 33% of couples, who report stable or increasing satisfaction with their partner, utilize on a daily basis. Couples will be given exercises to practice during this workshop, with the idea that these skills must be carried forward in time and practiced at home. In fact, the motto of the workshop is “Small Things Often,” as all of the skills are doable, but they must be practiced frequently for a couples’ friendship, intimacy and problem-solving to thrive. Taught by Judy M. Miller, MA Strongly encouraged for first time parents. $50

Nutrition: Nurture, Health & Behavior - Food is the body's fuel and one of the most basic ways that we provide nurture to our children. Malnutrition, sensitivities, allergies, and food preferences can impact a child's behavior, thinking, and emotional functioning. This class will introduce you to research surrounding nutrition and equip you with ways that you can interpret cravings and start to shape your child's behavior using food. Bring your questions and examples of your families common meals, snacks, and ingredients. Taught by Brooke Randolph, LMHC $30

Creative Discipline Techniques for Adoptive Families - Sometimes parenting requires a little creativity, and it often requires new ideas. Several strategies to help positively manage behavior while continuing to focus on your child's emotional and attachment needs will be explained and demonstrated in this course. How adults unintentional encourage misbehavior will also be discussed. This class is appropriate for parents with children of all ages and is taught by Elizabeth Nelson, MSW $40 

Creating a Lifebook For Your Child - Lifebooks are created to help adopted children to tell their own story, before and after the adoption. Lifebooks help children place adoption within the proper context of their total life experience. Join other adoptive parents in understanding the need for lifebooks, learning the difference between scrap books and lifebooks and understanding the importance of lifebooks as a lifelong process. We will help you identify the components of a lifebook and even develop some pages of your own adopted child’s book. 

Afro-Caribbean Hair & Skincare – Discuss what is natural hair. Learn about natural vs. commerical products in children's hair care, including simple home hair recipes and product suggestions for both natural and commercial products suggestions for children). Led by Uzuri Asad of b.Fly Consulting. Encouraged for all adopting from the Democratic Republic of Congo or Haiti. $25

It's a Jungle Out There! Taming Lions, Catching Monkeys, and Surviving Stress like a Zebra – Adoption, adjustment, and parenting are all full of stressors, and you cannot be the best parent possible unless you manage those well. This online introduction to stress management course is available at www.Brooke-Randolph.com certificate required  $95

Afro-Caribbean Hair Technique 101 - Learn about washing, detangling, braiding, twisting, how to properly apply accessories, the different types of accessories (pony O's, ouchless accessories, ribbons, barrettes, "knockers", etc.), as well as what/what not to use, style preservation, & damage repair. Demos and breakdowns of various basics (parting, "bunny"tails, simple braid/twist techniques) will also be included. Led by Uzuri Asad of b.Fly Consulting. Encouraged for all adopting from the Democratic Republic of Congo or Haiti. $25

Tweens, Teens, and Beyond: Parenting Your Adopted Child -Navigating through the crucial ages of tweens and teens can be challenging for any parent, but adoptive parents face unique challenges that only other adoptive parents are likely to understand. This interactive six week email course taught by Judy Miller fits into your busy schedule. Register through http://judymmiller.com/classes Class limit is six. $99

Marital Enrichment - Using the Prepare/Enrich program, you and your partner will complete a survey and meet with Brooke Randolph, LMHC, to strengthen your relationship as a couple and a parental team. Please email for cost estimate. 

Personal, Effective Communication – Using the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator, you will explore your personal communication style and learn how this will effect communicating as a parental team, communicating with your child, and/or with your child's biological family. Email for more information. $100 per family (cost includes MBTI inventory).

Blog Submission - write a 200-700 word essay , appropriate for posting on the MLJ Adoptions, Inc. blog and submit via email in Notepad or TextEdit format 
 
Independent study – choose an appropriate (non-fiction) adoption book and turn in a written book report, at least three pages in length, on what you have learned and how you will apply this to your family 

For Friends & Family - Adoption is complex and emotional. Ever wonder if what you’re saying or doing is right? This class provides guidance for those who provide support for adopting and adoptive parents: moms, dads, sisters, brothers, friends, extended family, educators, clergy, etc. You will learn what adoptive parents want you to know about adoption. Taught by Judy Miller. $50 (for up to five people)