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   <title>MLJ Adoptions, inc.</title>
   <description>Based in Indianapolis, Indiana, MLJ Adoptions is happy to serve families across the United States who are interested in either domestic adoption or international adoption.</description>
   <link>http://www.mljadoptions.com</link>
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      <title>Healing Grief</title>
      <description>Judy shares her insights into her daughter's grief about the loss of her birth mother and how she is empathetically parenting and loving her children through that grief.</description>
      <link>http://mljadoptions.com/articles/77.mlj</link>
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      <title>My Husband Didn't Share My Passion for Adoption; He Does Now!</title>
      <description>After several years and many discussions, Ami is thrilled to know that her husband is now as excited about adopting as she is. </description>
      <link>http://mljadoptions.com/articles/76.mlj</link>
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      <title>Considering The Risk To Every Child</title>
      <description>News of questionable practices by another agency causes Brooke to consider the risks to all the children in need of families. She also addresses how to know you are working with an ethical agency. </description>
      <link>http://mljadoptions.com/articles/75.mlj</link>
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      <title>Expect the Unexpected</title>
      <description>Joy shares how her family came to adoption and that the greatest gifts are often unexpected and not exactly what we had planned.</description>
      <link>http://mljadoptions.com/articles/74.mlj</link>
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      <title>The True Cost of Adoption: a Biblical perspective</title>
      <description>Lydia continues her article on the True Cost of Adoption by sharing her understanding of what the Bible says about adoption and what it costs. </description>
      <link>http://mljadoptions.com/articles/73.mlj</link>
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      <title>The True Cost of Adoption</title>
      <description>Although the financial cost is a big part of the adoption journey, the hidden costs in adoption of our time, emotions, comfort, and expectations are also important to consider.</description>
      <link>http://mljadoptions.com/articles/72.mlj</link>
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      <title>Adoption and the Empty Nester</title>
      <description>Outreach Coordinator Joy McClain shares why she is celebrating the opportunity to adopt and parent again while her children are leaving 'the nest'.</description>
      <link>http://mljadoptions.com/articles/71.mlj</link>
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      <title>The Legal Complexities of Adopting and Hosting Children from Haiti</title>
      <description>Executive Director Michele Jackson, JD, explains why opportunities to help Haitian children may be delayed and complicated, how MLJ Adoptions, Inc. is trying to help, and how you can too.</description>
      <link>http://mljadoptions.com/articles/70.mlj</link>
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      <title>Answering Questions From Family and Friends About Adopting</title>
      <description>Many adoptive parents find that those they expect will support them in their adoption journey instead question every step, criticize, and even discourage their decision to adopt.</description>
      <link>http://mljadoptions.com/articles/69.mlj</link>
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      <title>How Can We Care for the Orphans of Haiti?</title>
      <description>Outreach Coordinator Joy McClain shares her memories of Haiti, her concerns for the people, and her hope for their future, while raising important questions about adoption. </description>
      <link>http://mljadoptions.com/articles/68.mlj</link>
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      <title>Using the Family and Medical Leave Act for Adoption</title>
      <description>Talk to your HR department about using FMLA and other benefits for adopting. FMLA time can be helpful for travel and adjusting to a new child in your home.</description>
      <link>http://mljadoptions.com/articles/67.mlj</link>
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      <title>Adoption and the Catholic Faith</title>
      <description>Outreach Coordinator Valerie Karlsson shares how her view on adoption and orphan care has been shaped by her understanding of the Catholic faith.</description>
      <link>http://mljadoptions.com/articles/66.mlj</link>
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      <title>Helpful Hints From Our Ukrainian Journey</title>
      <description>Recent adoptive parents and MLJ clients, the Campbell's share some tips from their experience for others traveling to Ukraine to adopt.</description>
      <link>http://mljadoptions.com/articles/65.mlj</link>
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      <title>What Does Hague Mean?</title>
      <description>MLJ Adoptions is thrilled to announce we have been approved as an adoption agency that can work in Hague Convention countries through 2013. </description>
      <link>http://mljadoptions.com/articles/64.mlj</link>
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      <title>We Are Blessed Indeed This Holiday Season</title>
      <description>Reflecting on how blessed we are to find families for orphans, how far we have come, and all the wonderful people we have met along the way. Thank you from MLJ!</description>
      <link>http://mljadoptions.com/articles/63.mlj</link>
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      <title>Poem: A Child's Heart</title>
      <description>Guest blogger Tony Stewart shares the poetry his heart was inspired to write while visiting orphanages in Nicaragua and seeing the beautiful hearts of the orphaned children. </description>
      <link>http://mljadoptions.com/articles/62.mlj</link>
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      <title>Etched on My Heart Forever: Part 2</title>
      <description>Guest blogger Tony Stewart shares how he was touched by visiting orphanages in Nicaragua and urges you to consider how you can make a difference in the life of a child. </description>
      <link>http://mljadoptions.com/articles/61.mlj</link>
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      <title>Etched on My Heart Forever: Part 1</title>
      <description>Guest blogger Tony Stewart shares about his experience visiting orphanages in Nicaragua and how it was different than he had expected. </description>
      <link>http://mljadoptions.com/articles/60.mlj</link>
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      <title>Help Us Warm Hands, Feet, and Hearts this Orthodox Christmas</title>
      <description>After seeing the great need for socks, hats, and gloves at the orphanages in Ukraine, we will be collecting donations to send to them for their Christmas celebration in January.</description>
      <link>http://mljadoptions.com/articles/59.mlj</link>
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      <title>What Happens When We Don't Look Alike?</title>
      <description>Today's guest blogger author Tara Michener promotes diversity and inclusion. She shares with us some important ways families can address such topics together.</description>
      <link>http://mljadoptions.com/articles/58.mlj</link>
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      <title>The Blind Side Review: Forever Changed</title>
      <description>The Blind Side is an inspiring, feel good movie filled with positive themes, laughs, and touching moments. Although non-traditional, it bathes adoption in a positive light and shows how wonderfully life-changing it can be.</description>
      <link>http://mljadoptions.com/articles/57.mlj</link>
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      <title>New Adoption Program in Congo</title>
      <description>MLJ Adoptions, Inc. is happy to announce a new program with the Democratic Republic of Congo for the adoption of children of all ages.</description>
      <link>http://mljadoptions.com/articles/56.mlj</link>
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      <title>Giving Thanks by Giving Back</title>
      <description>MLJ team members will be participating in an orphanage support trip to Nicaragua through the Fatherless Foundation this Thanksgiving.</description>
      <link>http://mljadoptions.com/articles/55.mlj</link>
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      <title>Celebrating National Adoption Awareness Month in November</title>
      <description>Celebrate Adoption and introduce others to adoption during National Adoption Awareness Month this November. </description>
      <link>http://mljadoptions.com/articles/54.mlj</link>
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      <title>Those Eyes...</title>
      <description>Team member Brooke Randolph shares how she is personally impacted by orphanage visits and her reasons for adoption. </description>
      <link>http://mljadoptions.com/articles/53.mlj</link>
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      <title>the Fatherless Foundation Invites You to Aid the Orphan</title>
      <description>On Oct 30, 2009, The Fatherless Foundation will be holding its third annual benefit auction and dinner and invites all interested in orphan care to attend.</description>
      <link>http://mljadoptions.com/articles/52.mlj</link>
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      <title>Answers About the Adoption Tax Credit - Part 4</title>
      <description>CPA and guest blogger Rob Pederson explains details regarding filing for the adoption tax credit in the series Answers About the Adoption Tax Credit.</description>
      <link>http://mljadoptions.com/articles/51.mlj</link>
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      <title>How to Keep Your Cool Through the Adoption Journey</title>
      <description>When we allow stressors to get to us, we don't think as clearly, remember as well, or do things to the best of our ability. Following these 6 tips can help your adoption journey go more smoothly. </description>
      <link>http://mljadoptions.com/articles/50.mlj</link>
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      <title>Answers About the Adoption Tax Credit - Part 3</title>
      <description>CPA and guest blogger Rob Pederson explains details regarding filing for the adoption tax credit in the series Answers About the Adoption Tax Credit.</description>
      <link>http://mljadoptions.com/articles/49.mlj</link>
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      <title>2009 Annual Adoption Picnic : A Beautiful Success</title>
      <description>We want to thank everyone for helping to make this year's picnic another fabulous event. We look forward to seeing you again next year!</description>
      <link>http://mljadoptions.com/articles/48.mlj</link>
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      <title>Legal and Ethical Considerations of Embryo Adoption</title>
      <description>While embryo adoption has brought many adoptive parents much joy, it needs to be considered as a fairly new avenue which has not yet been completely explored and may hold some inevitable risks.</description>
      <link>http://mljadoptions.com/articles/46.mlj</link>
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      <title>Answers About the Adoption Tax Credit - Part 2</title>
      <description>CPA and guest blogger Rob Pederson explains details regarding filing for the adoption tax credit in the series Answers About the Adoption Tax Credit.</description>
      <link>http://mljadoptions.com/articles/45.mlj</link>
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      <title>What is Embryo Adoption?</title>
      <description>As IVF has become more common, those who have chosen this method find they have the responsibility of determining the destiny of frozen embryos; many are considering donation for adoption by other infertile couples. </description>
      <link>http://mljadoptions.com/articles/44.mlj</link>
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      <title>Answers About the Adoption Tax Credit - Part 1</title>
      <description>CPA and guest blogger Rob Pederson explains details regarding filing for the adoption tax credit in the series Answers About the Adoption Tax Credit. </description>
      <link>http://mljadoptions.com/articles/43.mlj</link>
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      <title>MLJ Annual Adoption Picnic</title>
      <description>You are cordially invited to attend our annual picnic, open to anyone interested in adoption or orphan care, on September 20, 2009. </description>
      <link>http://mljadoptions.com/articles/42.mlj</link>
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      <title>What to Expect When You're Adopting Domestically</title>
      <description>Guest blogger Valerie shares what she learned through her two domestic adoption experiences, from decision to adopt to coming home with a child. </description>
      <link>http://mljadoptions.com/articles/41.mlj</link>
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      <title>International Events in Indiana August 2009</title>
      <description>The Nationalities Council of Indiana has released their calendar of ethnic events for August. This can be an excellent way for you to celebrate multi-culturalism in your community and share some quality time as a family.</description>
      <link>http://mljadoptions.com/articles/40.mlj</link>
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      <title>Choosing Adoption Without Support: MTV's 16 and Pregnant</title>
      <description>We are happy to have our wonderful intern contributing to our blog and honoring the courage and love of those expectant mothers that choose adoption as the best option for their children. </description>
      <link>http://mljadoptions.com/articles/39.mlj</link>
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      <title>Invest in Your Children by Investing in Your Spouse</title>
      <description>Children find security in a stable, loving environment and model their future relationships from yours. Are you investing in your children by investing in your marriage?</description>
      <link>http://mljadoptions.com/articles/38.mlj</link>
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      <title>"Each Child Is Worth The Fight"</title>
      <description>Guest blogger shares how she chose motherhood by adoption despite career plans and how hard she has fought to provide a forever family for her daughters.</description>
      <link>http://mljadoptions.com/articles/37.mlj</link>
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      <title>Indiana's International Events in July &amp; August</title>
      <description>The Nationalities Council of Indiana has released their calendar of ethnic events for July &amp; August, including new language courses and Asian, African, &amp; Eastern European festivals.</description>
      <link>http://mljadoptions.com/articles/36.mlj</link>
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      <title>SBC Passes Resolution on Adoption and Orphan Care</title>
      <description>The Southern Baptist Convention passed a resolution at their annual convention recognizing the orphan crisis and urging Christians to support adoption and orphan care.</description>
      <link>http://mljadoptions.com/articles/35.mlj</link>
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      <title>Why You Should Use an Agency for Your Adoption</title>
      <description>The following is a brief summary of how using an adoption agency such as “MLJ”, can save the prospective adoptive parent worry, time and yes - money!</description>
      <link>http://mljadoptions.com/articles/34.mlj</link>
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      <title>by Phone, by Fax, by Email, by Twitter</title>
      <description>There are many ways to get a hold of the MLJ Adoptions team. Find out who can answer the questions you have and how to get contact us. </description>
      <link>http://mljadoptions.com/articles/33.mlj</link>
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      <title>Why Re-Adopt?</title>
      <description>The final step in inter-country adoption is re-adoption and it is always recommended for the best interests of your child and your family, even when not required. </description>
      <link>http://mljadoptions.com/articles/32.mlj</link>
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      <title>Handling the Difficult Truth with Honesty</title>
      <description>If adoption was not your first choice, your child may feel second best. Honestly sharing your humanity &amp; addressing these feelings can help your relationship grow.</description>
      <link>http://mljadoptions.com/articles/31.mlj</link>
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      <title>Adoption Tweet-up</title>
      <description>@MLJadoptions is sponsoring a tweetup in Indiana on Saturday, June 20th for anyone touched by or interested in adoption. Join Us!</description>
      <link>http://mljadoptions.com/articles/30.mlj</link>
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      <title>Guatemala One Year After Hague</title>
      <description>Sonja Brown summarizes a JCICS report on the state of Guatemalan orphans and adoptions since the implementation of the Hague Convention on Inter-country Adoption on January 1, 2008.</description>
      <link>http://mljadoptions.com/articles/27.mlj</link>
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      <title>Indiana's International Events in June</title>
      <description>The Nationalities Council of Indiana has released their calendar of ethnic events for June. This can be an excellent way for you to celebrate multi-culturalism in your community and share some quality time as a family.</description>
      <link>http://mljadoptions.com/articles/26.mlj</link>
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      <title>Father's Day Frosty's for Adoption</title>
      <description>Show how much you appreciate your dad by doing something to help another child have a father. Treat your dad &amp; yourself to a Frosty on Father's Day weekend &amp; support the Dave Thomas Foundation for Adoption. </description>
      <link>http://mljadoptions.com/articles/25.mlj</link>
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      <title>Employers Support Family-Building by Adoption</title>
      <description>Does your employer offer benefits that can help make adoption a more affordable option? Read about the top-ranked Indiana and overall American workplaces.</description>
      <link>http://mljadoptions.com/articles/24.mlj</link>
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      <title>The Strength Adoption Attorneys Add to Our Agency</title>
      <description>A strength of the MLJ Adoptions team is the diverse education and experience of our team, including two attorneys; a strength many agencies do not share. </description>
      <link>http://mljadoptions.com/articles/23.mlj</link>
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      <title>Compassion : There are No Excuses (Part 2)</title>
      <description>Sonja Brown continues her discussion of Compassion and reaching out to orphans by sharing the truth to the many excuses she hears not to adopt.</description>
      <link>http://mljadoptions.com/articles/22.mlj</link>
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      <title>Compassion: An argument for Compassion (part 1)</title>
      <description>Sonja Brown discusses research on compassion and why orphans around the world need more compassion from us. </description>
      <link>http://mljadoptions.com/articles/21.mlj</link>
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      <title>Celebrating Birthmothers this Mother's Day Weekend - Part 2</title>
      <description>Guest blogger Lindsey Redfern continues to discuss the importance of celebrating birth mothers on Birthmother's Day and Mother's Day.</description>
      <link>http://mljadoptions.com/articles/20.mlj</link>
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      <title>Celebrating Birthmothers this Mother's Day Weekend - Part 1</title>
      <description>Guest blogger Lindsey Redfern introduces how Mother's Day has changed for her through adoption and why celebrating birthmothers is important on both Birthmother's Day and Mother's Day. </description>
      <link>http://mljadoptions.com/articles/19.mlj</link>
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      <title>10 Ways to Support a Waiting Mother on Mother's Day</title>
      <description>Mother's Day can go unrecognized or be painful for those waiting for adoption finalization, trying to get pregnant, or suffering from infertility. Guest blogger Kimberly Leclercq shares 10 ways to recognize &amp; be supportive to these important women &amp; </description>
      <link>http://mljadoptions.com/articles/18.mlj</link>
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      <title>Mother's Day while Waiting for Adoption</title>
      <description>Guest blogger Diane Brooks shares her experience on Mother's Day while waiting for her referral and encourages readers to join her in reaching out to another waiting Mother. </description>
      <link>http://mljadoptions.com/articles/17.mlj</link>
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      <title>Supplies Needed for Latin American Orphange Support Trip</title>
      <description>Our Latin American Program Director Mark Reder will be returning to Honduras and Nicaragua in May for the Fatherless Foundation annual mission trip with the purpose to provide relief supplies for orphanages in these two countries.</description>
      <link>http://mljadoptions.com/articles/16.mlj</link>
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      <title>"All Children Deserve a Home and a Loving Family"</title>
      <description>A story from a child orphaned as a teen. The Fatherless Foundation sponsors a program to provide an opportunity for older Ukrainian orphans to visit the US. It is an opportunity for prospective adoptive families to meet children available for adoptio</description>
      <link>http://mljadoptions.com/articles/15.mlj</link>
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      <title>True Life Adoption Stories Part 2</title>
      <description>MTV's recent True Life episode was enjoyable &amp; confirming as a provider of care for expectant mothers. Anyone facing this decision should be able to fully consider all options available &amp; make a fully informed choice in which they can be confident.</description>
      <link>http://mljadoptions.com/articles/14.mlj</link>
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      <title>True Life Adoption Stories Part 1</title>
      <description>MTV's recent True Life episode was enjoyable &amp; confirming as a provider of care for expectant mothers. Anyone facing this decision should be able to fully consider all options available &amp; make a fully informed choice in which they can be confident.</description>
      <link>http://mljadoptions.com/articles/13.mlj</link>
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      <title>We're All a Twitter!</title>
      <description>MLJ Adoptions, Inc. has joined Twitter to share information about our team, our services, and our programs; information that our clients want to know; and information about adoption and parenting. Follow Us!</description>
      <link>http://mljadoptions.com/articles/12.mlj</link>
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      <title>Adoption News Not as Negative as Appears</title>
      <description>Recently published research is being used to discourage support for adoption without full consideration of all factors involved. Lead author notes most well-adjusted and psychologically healthy.  </description>
      <link>http://mljadoptions.com/articles/11.mlj</link>
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      <title>Options to Make Adoption Travel Affordable</title>
      <description>When considering adoption travel, it is important to balance cost and flexibility. Several adoption focused options are highlighted here. </description>
      <link>http://mljadoptions.com/articles/10.mlj</link>
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      <title>Second Annual Ukrainian Adoption Reunion</title>
      <description>We are celebrating the fact that over 80 Ukrainian children have come home in the last three years! Please join us for the second Annual Ukrainian Adoption Reunion  Sunday, March 1 at Walnut Grove Chapel. </description>
      <link>http://mljadoptions.com/articles/9.mlj</link>
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      <title>Increased Tax Credit for Adoption Expenses</title>
      <description>The adoption tax credit has increased to $12,150 for 2009! Find out more about what this means and how it can help adoption an affordable option. This is one resource included in the Financial Assistance Guide provided to all clients of MLJ Adoptions</description>
      <link>http://mljadoptions.com/articles/8.mlj</link>
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      <title>Nepal Announces New Adoption Procedures</title>
      <description>New procedures for adopting from Nepal have been announced. MLJ Adoptions, Inc. is happy to act as your service provider and coordinate with an agency approved by the government of Nepal to facilitate your adoption. Find out more about the new standa</description>
      <link>http://mljadoptions.com/articles/7.mlj</link>
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      <title>New Adoption Program in Honduras</title>
      <description>MLJ Adoptions, Inc. is proud to announce our new program in Honduras. Infants and children of all ages are waiting to be adopted. The process is expedited when adopting children ages five and older. </description>
      <link>http://mljadoptions.com/articles/6.mlj</link>
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      <title>New Nicaraguan Adoption Program</title>
      <description>MLJ Adoptions, Inc. is pleased to announce our new program in Nicaragua, a small country in Central America that is working with only a few agencies in the United States. Both single women and single men may adopt Nicaraguan children, as well as marr</description>
      <link>http://mljadoptions.com/articles/5.mlj</link>
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      <title>2008 VietNam Adoption Picnic</title>
      <description>picture from the 2008 VietNam Adoption Picnic</description>
      <link>http://mljadoptions.com/articles/3.mlj</link>
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