Blog

25
Jun

Seeing the World Through Their Eyes

While digging through old family records in search of details to help me write my book on international adoption, I found a letter my parents wrote to my brother and sister in 1991. This was before my siblings moved from their orphanage in India to our home in Nebraska. “Dear Ganga and Bhola,” it started. ...
20
Jun

Combating Corruption in Congo

It has been reported that someone working in DR Congo was arrested for kidnapping children for the purpose of adoption. This is a sad reminder of the corruption that can happen in the adoption world. I am dismayed that this happened in a country where there are so many children in need of forever homes. ...
15
Jun

And What of the Fathers?

My children rarely ask about their birth fathers. Their questions and comments focus on their birth mothers. When attempting to steer them in the direction of birth fathers, I’ve had little luck. I can’t walk in my kids’ shoes. But I try as hard as I can to understand their perspectives, some way to relate ...
11
Jun

Dr. Boris Gindis Focuses on Unique Learning & Social Needs of Internationally Adopted Children

Internationally adopted children often have unique academic struggles. Unfortunately, many schools are not prepared to address the a-typical needs of these kids. Therefore, adoptive parents often must become their child’s best advocates in school. It becomes up to the parents to educate themselves, to the best extent that they can, on the needs of their ...
6
Jun

The Boom and Bust of International Adoption

The Boom and Bust of International adoption programs has been observed by adoption professionals and adoptive parents throughout the past ten years. Countries open to international adoption, have hundreds of adoptions and then close just years later. This can leave intended adoptive parents in turmoil if they have not completed their adoption and even worse ...
4
Jun

Momma's Wanted

Originally posted at Passionate Pursuit Yup. He can be a momma’s boy. He can rough and tumble in the yard, pretend to race motorcycles, climb a tree, spit in the grass, plow his tractors through the dirt, but when it’s all said and done…he wants to know where his momma’s at. There’s comfort in a ...
31
May

From Adoption To Olympic Dreams

The Indianapolis Star shared the story of 13 year old Jordan Pisey Windle, considered a diving phenom and the youngest ever to qualify for the U.S. Olympic diving trials. Born in Cambodia, he was adopted by a single father, Jerry Windle in 2001. Neither Jordan nor Jerry were thinking about diving or the Olympics at ...
24
May

Jillian Michaels Brings Home Her Babies

Things have suddenly gotten very busy for Jillian Michaels! On May 12 former coach for NBC’s The Biggest Loser brought home her two year old daughter Lukensia from Haiti after a two year adoption process; this just two weeks after her partner gave birth to a son Phoenix on May 3 in Los Angeles. “We’re ...
23
May

New Location, Open House

Have you heard? We’ve moved! We will be having an Open House on Friday, June 1st, from 6:00 – 9:00PM at our new location! Come see our beautiful new office building, located in the Arch at Chatham. We are just getting settled in and beginning to personalize our space here at MLJ. The building that ...
21
May

Signs of Post-Adoption Depression

New mothers might be aware of the "baby blues" or Post-Partum Depression (PPD) that comes after pregnancy and delivery. According to Science Daily, up to 70-50% of new mothers will experience a brief episode of feeling depressed, irritable, uninterested in pleasurable activities, or experiencing excessive worry or guilt. Approximately 10% of new moms will go ...
16
May

Parents Connect: Making the Magic Last

New to parenthood? If you answered “yes” or nodded in agreement then you should consider attending Parents Connect, one of the recent additions to MLJ Adoption Inc.’s broad educational offerings. Welcoming a child into your family through adoption is an opportunity for a new beginning; new relationships, expectations (even though we emphasize, in adoption preparation ...
15
May

Chimpanzee: The Movie

** Spoiler alert. ** Like most, my kiddos are fascinated by the animal kingdom. So we enthusiastically went to see Chimpanzee—the nature documentary produced by Disneynature. Geared for the younger set, the G-rated Chimpanzee centered on a cute young chimp—“Oscar.”
14
May

You're Invited to the 2012 Adoption Picnic

You’re invited to attend the 4th Annual MLJ Adoptions Picnic. If you aren’t already familiar with our event, this picnic is a family favorite! Come and join us as we celebrate the homecoming of children from around the world! This is a great opportunity to chat with families who have completed their adoption, and hear ...
11
May

A Mother's Day Reflection

This coming Sunday is Mother’s Day. For most children, including adopted children, Mother’s Day is a time of celebration, appreciation, and love. But not for me. I hate Mother’s Day. I hate it distinctly, clearly, and without reservation. Some years I am so full of anger I simmer with it for days. Other years I ...
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