Blog

1
Aug

A Small Look Inside the Life of Aaron Eske

Originally published at Crossroads of America Adoption Conference, re-published with permission. Growing up in Nebraska, Aaron watched Where In The World Is Carmen Sandiego Monday-through-Friday on the carpet while eating a bag of Ruffles potato chips. As a result, to this day he has high cholesterol and can recite nearly every word to the theme ...
30
Jul

Calling All Perfect Parents

Has anyone seen the public service announcement adoption commercials currently airing on Bravo TV? There are amusing 30 second spots with well meaning parents clearly making egregious faux pas in the eyes of their kids. What is so amusing is that even if you are not someone’s parent, you are certainly someone’s child and everyone ...
26
Jul

Family Photos Provide Sense of Belonging

Family photos stir all kinds of memories for most people. For me, when my kids were little, I remember the frustration and tears (theirs and mine) in trying to get the “perfect” photo. It never failed that if one was smiling the other wasn’t, or inevitably if they were both smiling, my eyes were closed. ...
25
Jul

What Does Your Flag Stand For

Friday night’s upcoming opening ceremonies mark the official start of the 2012 London Olympic Games. As each participating country is presented during the Parade of Nations, led by a representative with their nation’s flag, we here at MLJ Adoptions thought we’d take a look at the meaning behind some of our program countries’ flags. John ...
24
Jul

Attachment with Children Who Have Experienced Trauma

I attended a conference recently where guest speaker, Juli Alvarado, discussed a trauma informed paradigm she created, called Emotional Regulatory Healing (ERH). Alvarado described ERH, as “an integrative, theory based, trauma informed, and whole culture approach to healing of trauma.” She stated that the objective of ERH is to maximize a person’s ability to build ...
24
Jul

Questions To Ask Your Prospective Agency

I do many consultations with families who are looking to adopt and trying to choose an agency. For many, the same question is asked at the end of our conversation, “Is there anything I didn’t ask that I should have?” Families new to the adoption world are navigating a sea of agencies, legalities and processes ...
23
Jul

Attunement for Attachment

Attunement (noun): being or bringing into harmony; a feeling of being "at one" with another being. Think about the strongest relationships in your life. The person you call when you really need someone who gets it. How do you know they “get it?” What is special about those relationships? How does that relationship make you ...
17
Jul

What About Sunscreen?

In preparation for meeting my daughter in Africa, I packed everything I could possibly think of, including sunscreen. It’s hot in Africa! This item became a topic of conversation with the three other couples we traveled with. The main topic of the conversation was “do black people need sunscreen?” With summer in full swing, parents ...
16
Jul

Ukrainian Team Wins Microsoft Imagine Cup

The Microsoft Imagine Cup is the world’s premier student technology competition. The Imagine Cup 2012 theme: Imagine a world where technology helps solve the toughest problems, inspired many student teams to address the problems faced by differently-abled individuals. Twenty-three percent of Imagine Cup projects this year were created to improve the lives of individuals with ...
11
Jul

Playing Inside To Beat The Heat

Across the nation temperatures have hit extraordinary highs. It’s been so hot that venturing outside for even a few minutes leaves you drenched in sweat, and swimming pools have been transformed into hot tubs. It’s miserably hot days like the ones we have been having that remind me of similar summers at home with my ...
10
Jul

The Truth About Adopting A Special Needs Child

We are very excited that just last month one of our families brought home their HIV-positive child! While this is not the first HIV-positive child MLJ has helped join a forever family, or even the first child with other special needs, it is the first Hiv-positive child who has arrived since we started an official ...
5
Jul

MLJ Adoptions Provides Many Avenues of Communication to Clients

The staff of MLJ Adoptions continually communicate key information with our Adoptive Parents through e-mails, tweets, posts on facebook, blogs, and through our Client Care Database to keep our clients informed about their adoption journey. While MLJ is responsible for providing these means of communication, it is the responsibility of all Adoptive Parents to take ...
3
Jul

Independence: Never Easy, But Worth It

We wish you a very happy Independence Day this July 4th. On this day we are thankful for the men and women and their families that have served and continue to serve our nation fighting to preserve our independence. The fight for independence is almost never an easy battle, but it is always an important ...
2
Jul

Getting to Know Heidi Weimer

Heidi Weimer is one of the Keynote Speakers and Breakout Session Leaders at this year’s Crossroads Of America Adoption Conference. Heidi leads a very busy life being a wife, a mother, a children’s book author, an adoption advocate, a blogger and believe it or not, a song writer. It’s an honor to have her, and ...
29
Jun

Adoptive Family Detained in Africa

This past weekend, US adoptive parents adopting from Ghana were detained at the airport after police received an anonymous tip accusing them of child trafficking. During the detainment, their two biological children were placed in a nearby orphanage until their parents were released. They have now been cleared to bring their biological children home, but ...
27
Jun

Ambiguous Loss, Adoption and Foster Care

In the 1970s, Pauline Boss named the idea that ambiguous loss is different from the loss normally associated with death. When there is an ambiguous loss, there is no verification of death, yet there is no certainty that the person will come back or return to the way she or he used to be. Ambiguous ...
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